The subtle art of not giving a f@ck by Mark Manson

March 21st 2024 

    In this case we will take a very short view to the back “The subtle art of not giving a f@ck” Nowadays, we live in a very superficial society that judge us for everuthing and nothing. This societi even judge us before we have even start our projects. This negative feedback we can also make us feel as we are no capable to do something, and what is worst, we have even tried. In this book also share with use that we need to really need to focused on what matters and not in what other people thinks that may happen. In this book  Bukowski was consider a bad person on his worst days, however, he was able to achieve his goal to be a writer. And showed that we cannot change what we was, at the end are hat we are, human being that make mistakes.

    Then we encounter in the book the chapter The Feedback Loop from Hell. In this chapter we find that we are giving more attention to thing that may not be important. As it is expressed in the book, anxiety causes more anxiety, fear caused more fear.  We also can reflect that we need to prove no one what we are, becuase if we overwhelm we will be losing our mind and what does not matter. We cannot measure our goals in what other people do, we need to focused on what we are and about our own process, and we need to prioritize our though effectively.

    We can also encounter some important point in this book, for instance: we need to be different but no indifferent. Also we need do not need to be focused on adversity, first we need to focus on something more important than adversity. And finally on of the thought that most called my attention is that at the end of the days we are the ones that choose what we give a fuck about based on what consider it is important for us.

 

    Based on what we have shared, we can say that in this book Mark, wants to share what we need are the ones that choose the importance that we give to people’s comments and opinions. Since we need to always choose what us better for us, and focus our mind on what really matter for us. In some case we can come across some obstacles, however, we need to be the one how decide if we want to continue going or we want to give a fuck to what does not matter.